Kentucky hosts survivor outreach event for families of fallen Service members
Story by Sgt. Lerone Simmons, 133rd Mobile Public Affairs Detachment

Alan Bernstein, co-owner of B&B Riverboat Company and captain of the Belle of Cincinnati, poses with his daughter Terri Bernstein, co-owner, after receiving awards, coins, and congratulations from General Frank J. Grass, Chief of the National Guard Bureau (left), Pat Grass, his wife, and Brig. Gen. Benjamin Adams III, Chief of Staff for the Kentucky National Guard, in recognition of their commitment to the Survivor Outreach Services boat ride, Newport, Ky., June 15, 2015. More than 600 Gold Star family members attended the event. (U.S. Army National Guard photo by Sgt. Lerone Simmons)
NEWPORT, Ky. — The Belle of Cincinnati hosted 600 Gold Star family members for a cruise along the Ohio River, June 14, in an effort to provide support, assistance and care.
For Terri Bernstein, co-owner of B&B Riverboats which operates the Belle, the Ohio River cruise is somewhat of a family reunion. Bernstein is a Gold Star Wife whose husband, Kentucky National Guard Staff Sgt. Nicholas Carnes, died Aug. 26, 2007, in Afghanistan. He was assigned to Battery A, 2nd Battalion, 138th Field Artillery Regiment, and was a captain for B&B Riverboats.
“Fallen families are near and dear to my heart,” she said. “Supporting them makes me feel better.

David Orange, a support coordinator with Survivor Outreach Services, wishes a surviving family member farewell after returning from a Survivor Outreach Services boat ride at Newport, Ky., June 14, 2015. The boat ride is intended to bring families together who have lost an immediate family member in the line of military duty. (U.S. Army National Guard photo by Sgt. Lerone Simmons)
“We’ve had more attendance than last year and I plan on putting this on (every year) if families keep coming,” she said.
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Mark Grant, the Kentucky National Guard Survivor Outreach Services coordinator, said the SOS program exists to help serve the surviving families of the fallen by keeping them connected with the Army, and Kentucky National Guard, for as long as they desire.
“This boat ride allows survivors to have the opportunity to have a good time, while being together with other families that share their pain, but giving them the chance to have fun,” said Grant
This is the second year for the SOS cruise, and passengers agreed that the one-day event is somewhat like a therapy session.
For Leslie and James Groves III, natives of upstate New York, the Flag Day cruise was to honor their son, Chief Warrant Officer 3 James E. Groves III, an active duty helicopter pilot assigned to 3rd Squadron, 17th Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Combat Aviation Brigade, 3rd Infantry Division, who died in 2013, in an OH-58 Kiowa helicopter crash.
“James decided that the Army was the best choice for him and we are very proud of his service,” said the elder James, a former Army Reservist.
That pride, according to Leslie, is something that was shared by each of the survivors; along with the grief.

BB Riverboat’s Belle of Cincinnati pulls into the Newport dock to board Gold Star family members and military dignitaries for a Survivor Outreach Services boat ride, Newport, Ky., June 14, 2015. The event, in its second year, hosted more than 600 surviving family members and friends. (U.S. Army National Guard photo by Sgt. Lerone SImmons)
“We’ve all been through the process of getting that call, receiving a flag, and going through the grieving process,” she said. “This actually makes for a much stronger bond and support group.
“This boat ride has allowed us to get together and meet new families and build friendships, and we are very grateful for it,” she said.
The cruise was free, and included food provided by the Cincinnati-based Gold Star Chili restaurant. Surviving family members from eight states participated in the event, which also included activities from the Kentucky National Guard Youth and Family Programs. Among the honored guests were Gen. Frank J. Grass, Chief of the National Guard Bureau, his wife, Pat, and assistant adjutants general from Kentucky, Tennessee, Ohio and Indiana.
The Gold Star tradition dates back to World War I, when mothers of fallen Service members would change their blue service stars, in the windows of their homes, to gold.
For more information about the Gold Star programs, log on to www.goldstarfamilyregistry.com.
For information about Survivor Outreach Services, visit www.sos.army.mil.
Video by Spc. Cody Cooper, 133rd MPAD
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Kentucky Guardsmen Pfc. David Barrow, Spc. Tommy Wyatt and Pvt. Cedric Bransford, 2113th Transportation Company, assist local residents in flood relief mission in Oscar, Ky., April 27. Photo by Staff Sgt. Michael J. Oliver, Kentucky National Guard Public Affairs
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Lt. Col. Kirk Hilbrecht, Director of Public Affairs, is the point of contact for this message. He can be reached at 502-385-8008.
FRANKFORT, Ky (April 28, 2011) – The Kentucky National Guard currently has approximately 125 Guardsmen and 24 tactical vehicles providing civic support to Western Kentucky in response to the flooding along the Ohio River. These Soldiers are conducting water barrier and sandbagging operations in Ballard, Ohio, Livingston and Daviess Counties as well as law enforcement support in Henderson and Fulton Counties.
Current Operations are as follows:

Kentucky Guardsman Spc. Tia Brooks, 2113th Transportation Company, tosses sandbags sandbags from flat bed semi truck for flood relief mission in Oscar, Ky., April 27. Photo by Staff Sgt. Michael J. Oliver, Kentucky National Guard Public Affairs
1. Ongoing Missions-All ground missions are being manned by elements of the 75th Troop Command. They currently have Soldiers deployed in Ballard, Livingston and Daviess Counties as follows:
a. Ballard County-Twenty-four Soldiers and four humvees from 2113th Transportation Company continue performing sand bagging operations to protect home sites, conducting around the clock operations in three 8-hour shifts.
b. Livingston County-Twenty-four Soldiers and four humvees from 2113th TC continue assisting in the construction of water barriers to protect the city of Smithland, conducting around the clock operations in three 8-hour shifts.
c. Daviess County- Thirty Soldiers and five humvees from the 206th Engineer Battalion and a sandbagging machine from the Wendell H. Ford Regional Training Center conducted sand bagging operations to protect a KEWS facility. This mission has been completed.
2. New Missions:
a. Ohio County: Twenty-four Soldiers and four humvees from 75th Troop Command are in Hartford, Kentucky, to conduct sand bagging operations to protect a Kentucky Utility Substation. They will conduct around the clock operations in three 8-hour shifts.

Kentucky Guardsmen Sgt. James Scott, 2113th Transportation Company, dump sand in Hesco barriers at the bank of the Ohio River in Smithland, Ky., April 27. Photo by Staff Sgt. Michael J. Oliver, Kentucky National Guard Public Affairs
b. Henderson County: Fifteen Soldiers and six humvees from 75th Troop Command are in Henderson, Kentucky to conduct presence patrols in support of local law enforcement. They will conduct operations 1800-0600 daily in support of the Henderson County Sheriff. These unarmed presence patrols are equipped with Sheriff Dept radios. Their mission is to deter looting by their presence and to report any activity to Henderson County Law Enforcement agencies, who will then respond.
Next 24 hours:
a. Operations in Ballard, Henderson, and Livingston Counties are expected to continue at current levels for at least the next 72 hours. The sand-bagging mission in Ohio County should be complete within 48 hours.
b. The Kentucky Guard has been tasked to support to local law enforcement in Fulton County to assist in controlling access to flooded roadways leading to the levee system.
c. The Commonwealth Emergency Operation Center is staffed at Level 3 0600-2400. The KYNG Joint Operations Center (JOC) is staffed at Level 2, with augmented staffing and extended hours based on mission requirements.
The EOC provides overnight phone coverage and response.
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Kentucky Guardsmen of the 2113th Transportation Company provide flood relief support to residents of Oscar, Ky., April 27. Photo by Staff Sgt. Michael J. Oliver, Kentucky National Guard Public Affairs